Cheating

Cheaters happens to be one of my favorite reality prime shows. However, even though I watch it….It still sickens me to the fact that we live in a world where relationships not only lost its trust. But some people have lost their loyalty. The moment you are with your first love( IN MARRIAGE) you have committed yourself to be spending the rest of your life with the most beautiful person God created for you. The moment you place that ring on his/her finger should value the fact of Death Do Us part. Love is a beautiful thing, and we shouldn’t waste a beautiful thing. Some people get married just for the title of it, yet still doesn’t understand commitment. People often cheat for the wrong reason. “Oh she ain’t what she used to be. Oh he doesn’t give the attention I need at night”…SO WHAT!!!! Marriage is sacred. You grow old together in love and matrimony. Cheating is very deceitful and disrespectful. I often ask to folks “Why cheat? What’s the purpose?”. Some folks always say “Oh it wasn’t like I was having sex. It was just this and that”…. Cheating is cheating no matter what. If you’re even thinking about another person or flirting in different ways, it’s still considered cheating.  They say you can hide it but the truth will eventually come out. Sometimes people will take it to their grave. Other times some people will eventually realize what they did is wrong and eventually will come clean to the other person. Some people will give that person a second chance. Second chances are always good. It will test our knowledge and faith to see if everything is everything. But earning the loyalty and trust back will take longer than usual.  So my philosophy….don’t cheat. Whether it’s emotional cheating or physical cheating, nobody deserves to be cheated on. So ask yourself if you’re unhappy…. What are some ways you can grow a deeper connection with your loved one? How can you keep the momentum going throughout your relationship? What can you do to add, change, or take away in the relationship that will better into something new? Start thinking of ways you grow deeply each day. Everyday is something new that you can fall in love with. Also, know the difference between a phase and a relationship. Remember, if you have done something you regret, don’t let the guilt take over your mind. Let it out. And for some of you who have been through the painful process of cheating, learn to forgive and set yourself free.

@RonaldAtkinson9