Is enough, enough?

Love will bring all types of emotions whether you’re in a relationship or not. Feelings will always come and go. Forever they will be drilled in us until the day we die. So here’s my relationship philosophy quote for the night…. “There will be times where you will fall in love with someone, and the more you're falling, the more it may hurt you in the end.”  Is this perhaps true? How much have you fell in love with someone that they kept hurting you? By hurting you, I mean not giving you the attention or affection.  The more you keep putting your 110% in making things work out and sometimes nothing ever gets returned.  So now the question is…”When is it time to move on?”. Do you listen to the voice of Faith and continue? Or are you sick and tired of trying? How deeply do you love that person? Is this person just a phase? How do you know if this someone is the one knowing you may have more relationships down the road? Have you ever actually been IN the relationship and still not getting the things you desire in return? How deeply did you have feelings for this person even though 2 years later, a new person in your life shows up? All of these questions kind of remains undetermined. So when is it time for you to move forward? Who can replace the old when you know the old was far more rewarding? Do you give up? Sometimes it takes a long time to truly get over someone. Sometimes you may have feelings for someone, and others will tear you down saying “No, it will never happen. Let him/her go.” Sometimes you can pray for a relationship, and God may say “wait”. But we may think the answer is a no, yet we can still piece together hints and clues leading up to the right time. Think of it like this, there’s a wall that stands two feet high. On the other side, your partner, crush, or someone. Sometimes it may feel that the more we climb up the wall to get over it, the bigger the wall gets. So again, is enough, enough? Do we give up or keep going. Sometimes there will be a crack in the wall, and as a hole gets larger, we can reach for that person. We’re so close that we think we may have them, but once again, you fall back and lose that person…..Just when you think you’re close, there’s always a setback . Sooooo….Do we continue to reach when the wall keeps building before our goal? Hmmm….Still remains a mystery. I don’t have any advice on this, nor is there right answers.  But these questions are up to you. You decide!!

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