Tips during the holiday season for singles.

It’s finally the holiday season, and most of you already have plans on what to do. Couples, you may do what you’re used to doing. But single people, don’t fret. We all know that this season is the one time where we can feel a bit on the downside of not having that chance to spend it with a loved one. But that doesn’t mean you shouldn’t be happy. There are ways to overcome this situation.

1. The Gift of Giving: The every holiday season, I always give something to others. Giving is an act of kindness even when others do not necessarily deserve it. When you’re giving to others, you’re blessing others with things that they don’t have or possibly uplifting their spirit. You never know what others are going through in their lives, but other people will recognize the heart you have. Volunteer during the holidays. Volunteer at a nursing home, church, or anywhere that people may not have it best. One of the best feelings you could possibly imagine is making yourself feel good while you make others feel good. Brighten their lives this holiday season. Giving is also a way to share the love.

2.   Mingle: Don’t feel down when you see others having a happy time together. Instead, go out and mingle. Mingle to have fun with others around you. Mingle with other singles, your friends(without their partners), and perhaps maybe you just might meet somebody new. If you do have single friends, host a party and invite them over. Friendship is always important, especially around the holidays. It’s not always about spreading love, but you’re spreading joy amongst your circle of friends. You’re also spreading peace within your circle.

3.  Connect with family: Nothing comes close than being around family during the holidays. Family is always your first love, and their value is important. Connect with family and embrace the fact that those are the only folks who will support and help you through your journey in life. Also, re-establish connections with family who you haven’t seen or talk to.

4.  Focus on You: This is about making YOU happy. You are to do what you love, what you desire, and what you would like to accomplish on your happiness. Exercise and it will help your endorphins. Get rid of anything that is polluting your mind with negativity. Think more on the positive side of what you’re blessed with and perhaps take a vacation for yourself(of friends) and replenish your mindset. Just because you are single doesn’t mean you should always live in depression or loneliness, it’s unhealthy. The reason why is because you are begin to dwell on it more while it builds up.

Being single during the holidays can be hard for some people, and that’s some of many ways on helping yourself being happy and joyful during a joyful season. Yes Holidays are important to be with loved ones, but loved ones aren’t limited to couples. It’s about family and friendship. It’s not about love, but spreading the love. How will you spread the love? Now, there ways you can find love over the holidays if you choose….I will write a separate blog, but this is for you. This is about making yourself happy. Take care of yourself, and do well. Keep giving and spreading the peace, love, and joy.


@RonaldAtkinson