Finding The One Over The Holidays

Finding the one is no where near to what I call “cuffing season”. Yes it’s around the winter holidays, but I’m just trying to give you hope. Most single people will tend to not bother with dating because most couples go out for each other during the holidays. For example, you buy the gifts, you go out on dinner dates, Christmas parties, and other activities, and single people are aware of avoiding that. Here’s what you can do to step it up. Men, if you’re wanting to ask that girl on the date, go back and refer to my past blog Asking Women On A Date.

1.     Less competition in finding someone. Now, if you’re in college(or any other type of school/institution.), you already know that most people are usually taken within the first two months just to get the year going. That time of the year has the most competition. Now since it’s later, you have less competition with others. Go participate in places where you might meet singles. A party, a park, skating, any place where most singles have the most fun. If you’re the type of person who does online dating, always update your information. Update your photo, make status updates, include what type of winter activities you’re interested in so that other singles will see the same.

2.     The Bond & Holiday Party Date: If you’re like me who loves going to the holiday parties(mature holiday parties), quickly find someone just by choosing. If you have a list of singles you’re interested in, rate them in order of preference, and get one to go with you as a holiday party date. It’s not like you’re using them, but for now, you’re only creating a bond. You never know where it may lead. Look for someone who maybe is outgoing, entertaining, someone who is comfortable with having conversations with new people. I wouldn’t recommend someone who is clinging on you during the whole party. Dear Ladies, Don’t EVEN speak or talk for you man when he is asked questions directly AT him. You may talk about him in your circle, but not when he’s around. Don’t BRAG.

3.     Giving is Caring: So you’re shopping for your family, get something for your love(or potential.) doesn’t have to be something big, but enough to show that you care.

4.     If there is someone who is interested in YOU, accept their offer when they ask you on a date.

Overall, update your status and plans every once in a while this holiday season. Go out and get the person you want in places where a good environment is set in, and boost your ego over the holidays.  Think about the friends where it may lead to something, and let the bonding begin. Online daters, just continue with the statuses, and those who are more old fashion, just venture out in the mingle area.