I’ve been putting this two-part blog off for a very long
time, and the more I keep bottling my thoughts in, the more I want to elaborate
on this topic. SEX; it’s the most controversial topic amongst many people right
next to politics, abortion, religion, and human rights. If you’re a Christian,
you would know that at a young age, you were often taught the rule of waiting
until you’re married to engage in full sexual activity. I would like to go ahead and elaborate on
this topic not to just focus on sex, but to focus more so on intimacy. We’re
often conflicted on this subject in various ways mainly because we’re unsure of
how to become more intimate in our relationships. What is intimacy? Webster’s
dictionary states that “it’s the state of being intimate”, but when we think of
being intimate, we start to think more so on being intimate with our partners
in bed. Intimacy isn’t just sex, but it
is a process for accepting our self, others, and our mind. Intimacy is a
process that grows, as well as being intimate with those around you.
Many life
& relationship experts have different views, points, and meanings on what
intimacy truly means, but I want to go ahead and point out some of my key topics
that will be used in this blog series.
Part One: Intimacy
Self –Intimacy:
How can we become more intimate with our self, loving our self, and accepting
our self.
Intimacy with
Children: The fascination of affection and nourishment we often show to a
child. What the moment really means to become very close to your child.
Relationship Intimacy
Discussing
the main components; Emotional, Intellectual, Spiritual, Physical, and Sexual side
to grow your relationship beyond the cycles of a relationship.
Spiritual Intimacy
Speaking
from a biblical perspective, how we ought to get closer to God himself. Discussing the fact in which he designed
Intimacy for our spiritual nourishment.
PART TWO: Sex
Education
Sex -Education
Schools
don’t fully teach on this subject unless of course it’s human anatomy, or
sexually transmitted diseases. This I focus more so on the development of a
child’s mind and body, also discussing why sex education is an important topic.
Stereotypes, Society,
College and Pornography
As a sequel
to the last topic leading to the next, this talks about how society preaches
Intimacy in a negative way. A way to ignore the propaganda, but be aware of
looking at things a different way. This is where the youth comes in the matter.
Sexual Intimacy
This will
focus mainly towards the group of non-marriage couples, pre-marital couples,
teens, young Christians, and young adults. I also want to inform in a sense
that “sex” isn’t truly bad thing, but the way it is often abused, is the reason
why people think it’s bad.
Sex and Christianity
This
completes the reason why it’s one of the few controversial subjects in society.
With that said, I will debunk some myths about it, yet give an elaborate
meaning on what Sex and The Bible talk about.
Intimacy Techniques
This
section, I will talk about some techniques regarding on how to improve intimacy
levels all together. I will also talk about ways couples can increase Intimacy
whether in the relationship, or the bedroom.
This will be a wrap-up of short exercises.
Stay posted for the first chapter of this series. Like I
said, this blog will be very exhaustive.
@RonaldAtkinson9The
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