Love Beyond Friendship: The foundation of a good relationship

So you have a crush on someone but afraid to be put in the Friend-zone. Or you’re afraid of jeopardizing the friendship. How do you know have found the right one? Well from a good way of answering that, take a sheet of paper and write the good things you want in a partner and write the things you don’t want in a partner.  That list will consist of your pros and cons in a person in which everyone has pros in cons for what he/she wants in a significant other. Too many of us find ourselves of either avoiding or getting into the beginning stages of “The Friend Zone”. Everyone hates the friend zone and it’s not always a fun place to be in, but if you really look at a good relationship, it generally starts out as being friends first and then eventually a relationship happens to grow. What we have twisted is being in a relationship first, and then becoming friends. I always say that a relationship isn’t always two lovers, but it’s also friends is involved. If you’re comfortable being around that person, and both of you have no shame of doing anything in front of each other, technically it’s perfect as it is. I applaud those friends who decide to “take a chance” at least to see where things go from here on out to the next level. Don’t always be afraid of letting that person know you have feelings for them, because you never know what the other person is thinking. And for those who think it’s awkward, just think and Take Chances because you never know how much value something may hold in the future. Think about how much that person has made an impact on you, and think to yourself what would he/she do in the long run. So here’s a question, would you rather keep the feelings to yourself and feel bottled up? Or live free once you set the pressure off?  Not everyone has the same feelings, expressions, and expectations, so of course it will be different towards others depending on how the two treats and sees one another. Later on I will have tips on how to avoid the Friend-Zone for both male and females, but this is just to show you what establishes a good relationship. Take care,and Take Chances.